Raise your hand if you thought BDSM was still running the show in gay kinks. Yeah, me too—until Squirt.org dropped their annual Squirt Unloaded bomb today with over 100,000 fresh data points from 2025. Spoiler: group play just curb-stomped everything else and took the crown.
That’s right. Gangbangs, orgies, circle jerks, whatever you want to call it—getting railed by multiple dudes (or doing the railing) is officially the hottest fantasy on the planet right now. Wild, right?
What 100,000+ Horny Guys Actually Want in 2025
I’ve been covering gay porn and hookup trends for longer than I care to admit, and I’ve never seen shifts this sharp in a single year. The numbers don’t lie, and they’re deliciously filthy.
Group Play Dethrones BDSM (And Everything Else)
Forget the leather daddies cracking whips—2025 is all about cracking open the bedroom door and letting the whole crew in. Group scenarios blew past BDSM, roleplay, exhibitionism, even fisting to claim the #1 kink spot globally. Studios, take note: your next big bareback orgy script basically writes itself.
Daddy Season Is Eternal
Silver foxes and salt-and-pepper bears keep winning. Daddies crushed twinks, otters, jocks, and yes, even the TikTok-fueled “gaymer” wave. There’s something about a confident older guy growling “good boy” that still makes half the community instantly hard. Science, baby.
Oral Is Back on Top—And Ass-Eating Is Climbing Fast
Blowjobs and deep-throating reclaimed the throne as the ultimate foreplay. But the real dark horse? Rimming shot up the charts like it’s 2015 all over again. Massage also cracked the top tier—turns out we like a little romance with our tongue-in-hole action.
Cities Have Sexual Personalities Now
- Sydney = Top capital of the world (those Aussie alphas aren’t playing)
- Los Angeles = Bottom paradise
- New York = Vers heaven, shocking absolutely nobody
- Chicago took the U.S. cruising crown from NYC (Midwest nice? More like Midwest nasty)
- Toronto runs Canada
- Spain is the #1 cruising country on Earth—olé and all that
Porn Habits Tell the Same Story
Top-watched categories right now? Bareback, orgy, and dom/sub—in that order. Amateur and public sex got knocked down a peg. Apparently we want high-production gangbangs with clear PrEP disclosure more than shaky iPhone park hookups these days.
“From the surge in group play to the renewed dominance of oral as a top fantasy, gay and bi men are gravitating toward experiences that blend intensity with intimacy.”
– Mitchell Cheeseman, Squirt.org Brand Manager
Lady Gaga Still Owns Our Playlists (And Hearts)
No surprise here. Mother Monster beat out every other diva and pop boy for the #1 gay artist. Chromatica PTSD clearly turned into Chromatica worship.
Monday Is the New Friday
Turns out the most crushing day of the week is also when everyone’s dick is hardest. Monday cruising traffic absolutely smokes the weekend worldwide. Case of the Mondays? More like case of the blue balls if you’re not logged in.
Bottom line—the community is hornier, pickier, and way more into sharing than we were even last year. Producers who pivot to slick, high-energy group scenes with hot daddies and crystal-clear raw breeding are about to print money in 2025.
And the rest of us? We’re just trying to keep up with our own fantasies. Good luck out there, boys. It’s a filthy new year.
